Couple of Secrets

Welcome to Couple of Secrets

Couple of Secrets is a window into our sexual experiences: an ordinary couple on a journey to nurture and expand its sexual space. We simply refuse the premise that as relationships advance sex becomes humdrum and boring.

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OMGYes project: a review

Wouldn’t it be cool if we all knew more about female anatomy and sexual satisfaction? If we were all familiar with the exact details and techniques that make women tick?

Welcome to the OMGYES project!

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Preparing for swingers clubs: what to put into your bag

The first time I was preparing for a swingers club was nerve wracking. Do I need to give my name and address ? Should I arrive early to check out the crowd ? How am I expected to interact? But as woman, the most pressing question was: what on earth am I supposed to wear?

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The stranger

She walked up to me, boldly. A smile played at the edge of her luscious lips. – ‘Waiting for someone?’ I took a sip of my Talisker, calmly. It afforded me a moment to study her. Long black hair, dark penetrating eyes, a tight burgundy turtle-neck hugging the contours of her bosom and a black leather skirt. I liked her.

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Sex chat: talking to your partner about sex

Talking to your partner about sex is the foundation of your sexual space as a couple. From personal experience, however, we both know it doesn’t always come easy. He might be reticent, she might be closed up… Here is what we learnt from our own experience.

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Female sexual energy: why both sexes need it

Female sexual energy should not be similar to that of men; it would be an artificial effort and doomed to fail. But it should complement it. So, ladies, next time your man shares his fantasies, don’t feel uncomfortable, don’t switch off and more importantly don’t spare him! Feel free to adapt it and to put yours on the table.

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The Corset: Tips on buying underwear for your lover

Buying underwear for your lover can be relatively easy. You know the size, you pick the brand and you choose what you would like to see her in. But it is much harder though to identify that one object of desire that fits her like a glove!

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On SM and other demons

A peek at the world of SM

”Everybody can fuck. That’s the easy part. What I do though… SM is another story… I can take you to the limits of your pain and back. I might hurt you, but I will not harm you.”

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(Y)our favourite sexual fantasies

At our first Couple of Secrets workshop at the BXLWKP afterwork party, we asked participants to write down their sexual fantasies. This is a selection of the most exciting fantasies we received. Now our message is: go and carry them out!

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The man in the mirror

When I first suggested an erotic photoshoot a couple of weeks ago, in bed, she giggled excitedly. She doesn’t have any experience in modelling, but I know deep inside that with those sensual curves, with that face, she will look like a goddess!

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Couple sexting: the best thing since hotlines

Couple sexting is a great way to keep your passion flowing throughout the day. It also serves as the perfect long-drawn foreplay necessary for more passionate sex. So why not do more of it!

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