A long healthy, sex life is possible. Do you thrive in your sexual space? Do you feel free to discuss your fantasies without the fear of being chastised? And, perhaps more crucially, is your sexual space evolving?Read More
A year has 365 potential Valentine’s days, and we try to cram in as many as we can! It would be very sad indeed to just have one day a year to celebrate your love and sex life, don’t you think?!Read More
The moment the ring appeared her pupils registered a brief instant of panic. ‘Is he proposing?!’ I could read her thought as if she had spoken it out loud, and almost soiled my pants.Read More
After a long kiss she took my hand and led me upstairs. Despite my tiredness my stomach knotted with anticipation. I knew well the magic that Aliki’s hands work on me. I stiffened just at the thought.Read More
Last night, as Aliki and I watched the fireworks go off over spectacular Copacabana, I found myself thinking of what I would like for 2018. Not resolutions. I don’t believe in them: they’re usually just a laundry list of unattainable targets that is postponed from one new year to another. Read More
When you are surrounded by sandy beaches and crashing waves it is difficult to imagine that it is Christmas time and cold winter in Europe. It is, however, rather easy to imagine that it’s the time and place for sex. Read More
Continued from The Ring – part 1
That second day on Koufonisi was probably one of the slowest ever. If I ever needed proof that Einstein’s Theory of Relativity actually works, I found it then on that Greek island. Thankfully, the day started late, as is wont on these kind of holidays. Read More
The idyllic, Greek island of Koufonisia has always been our secret El Dorado. Back in the time when our love was still an impossibility, we dreamt of going there together and even wrote about how we would imagine it to be. This summer, it finally happened. Read More
This morning we had the first snow of the season. Just a smattering really, but enough to justify the thick wad of Euros that Aliki and I spent on tickets to Brazil for Christmas. So, Rio here we come!
I am still mulling over the fact that nobody has to choose between his or her sexual fantasies and a stable, loving couple life. I feel strongly about this because I see it all around me and I have lived it before: passion in the arms of a lover and a home with a partner who cringes the moment you murmur the word “handcuffs”.