A long healthy, sex life is possible. Do you thrive in your sexual space? Do you feel free to discuss your fantasies without the fear of being chastised? And, perhaps more crucially, is your sexual space evolving?Read More
Since last week we started ticking off Xander’s list of sexual fantasies for 2018, I thought it was about time I contributed with mine as well. Just in case these wish-lists do work…Read More
Stuck on a red light, I was mulling over this, when I suddenly realised that a gorgeous brunette was looking at me from the car next to mine. My arousal was immediate. I looked back at her, trying to find both an excuse and the courage to talk to her, when she motioned at me to pull down the window. Was I dreaming?Read More
Last night, as Aliki and I watched the fireworks go off over spectacular Copacabana, I found myself thinking of what I would like for 2018. Not resolutions. I don’t believe in them: they’re usually just a laundry list of unattainable targets that is postponed from one new year to another. Read More
When it comes to porn, I admit I am rather illiterate. Xander has never had a special interest in it either. Are you utterly disappointed in us? Don’t unfollow us just yet! Read More
A rare and complex form of superior mirage seen mainly in the desert?
Nope. A swingers club on the outskirts of Amsterdam. And the first stop of our new sexual journey together with Xander about a year ago.
I am still mulling over the fact that nobody has to choose between his or her sexual fantasies and a stable, loving couple life. I feel strongly about this because I see it all around me and I have lived it before: passion in the arms of a lover and a home with a partner who cringes the moment you murmur the word “handcuffs”.