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Tuesday, June 30

It is official: Aliki and I are going out on our first date since the COVID-19 lockdown has been lifted! Date and time chosen and the babysitter booked. But we don't know where to go, yet. Should we just go out for a drink? Should we go to a restaurant? Of course no lifestyle dating yet. It's still exciting though!
Xander
Thursday, November 7

Remember how I wanted to find a dominatrix for an introduction to BDSM for Xander's birthday? Well, yesterday I was browsing online and I found a fascinating website of a "Cellar" in Antwerp. It looked professional, responsible and intriguing. It had some scary pictures too, but I decided to ignore them and ask specifically for something soft. Does it make sense, though, to surprise your partner with something like that? Xander is open-minded alright, but I didn't want to risk ambushing him. So I told him in the end and guess what? He is excited and we are going next month!
Do you have any experience with BDSM you'd want to share with us by then?
Aliki
Sunday, November 3

It’s tough to go straight from a sexy weekend together to five days apart! Yet, I find it reassuring that I miss Aliki so much. I hope that I will always will. Perhaps this is a bit soppy from my side, I admit. But that’s the way I feel. And I don’t think a man is less manly for showing his feelings.
Xander

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