5 Pegging Tips Every Guy Should Know
Curious about pegging? Here are 5 pegging tips for starters!
Before we talk about pegging tips he really need to mention Tom Ford. Tom Ford once said that every guy should get penetrated at least once in their lives and if Tom Ford said it, who are we to contradict him?
The sexual revolution has never been so popular, and new trends are emerging every day. On the one hand, it is refreshing to see individuals experimenting sexually and trying to find all the things that make them feel good. On the other hand, how are you supposed to enjoy anal sex if you’re just a regular straight guy and haven’t had the experience?
Rest assured that pegging isn’t such a big deal. More and more guys realize that the nerve endings in a man’s anus can make us feel rather good.
So, if you have thought about pegging, but you’re too scared to give it a go, take a look at these tips that will help you get prepared.
Here are 5 pegging tips every guy should know
1. Proper preparation is the key
First and foremost, let’s discuss the preparation process. Even though it might seem rather uncomfortable and perhaps even painful, the preparation process is not difficult. Still, it does take some time and relaxation.
What you want to do first is prepare by massaging your prostate. This can be done with a good prostate massage. Remember that your anus will clench as the muscles there aren’t used to this type of activity, so doing this beforehand will give you the idea of how and when you need to relax.
2. Get everything you need in advance
Pegging doesn’t require a lot of equipment, but it would be good to think about everything you might beforehand.
A good lube is crucial. You are not used to pegging, and bodily fluids just won’t do for this. Also, apart from the dildo and the strap-on (start with a small one), you might want to explore other sex toys that might make the night rather enjoyable.
It’s quite understandable that indulging in this activity might be frightening to you, so you don’t want to go completely crazy right away.
However, later on, you might want to get yourself some sex toys that you have been fantasizing about – if not now, then when?
3. Keep your mind open
One of the most common misconceptions is that pegging is either gay or bi, and that straight guys should not indulge in such activities.
The biggest obstacle standing between you and feeling good during pegging is your mind, so make sure always to keep it open. It’s essential to know that your sexual orientation does not depend on the types of sexual behaviour you engage in.
If you are completely sure of your sexual orientation, you have nothing to worry about. This is just one new sexual position that you want to try out, and once you relax and make the most of it, you will see that there’s nothing wrong with doing things in bed that makes you feel good.
4. Talk to your partner
Feeling uncomfortable before the first time is understandable, but one way to be entirely sure that you want to do this is to talk to your partner.
It doesn’t matter whose idea it is. Both of you can benefit from this situation and experience something completely new that you might like a lot.
Talk about your expectations, how to prepare properly, and what your limits are. This is the best way to approach this, and bear in mind that you should have complete trust in your partner.
5. Find the best positions
Finding the best position and angles will take some time unless you do your research before engaging in pegging.
The face-to-face missionary is the best position to start with, as this is the position that will make you relax the most. Simply take a deep breath and try not to clench your anal muscles until you have everything inside you.
Apart from that, you might also want to try doggy style, which is the most common, or cowboy.
Keeping your mind open to new sexual experiences is a huge trend – and it will be even bigger in the future. It’s time for us to put all the prejudice aside and simply engage in activities that will make us feel good. Good luck, and have fun!
About the author: Peter Minkoff is a sex and dating writer at HighStyleLife magazine. Follow Peter on Twitter for more pegging tips.
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