5 sexy gifts for you and your partner this Christmas
Any holiday period is a good occasion to improve your sex life. Christmas is no exception. It is the perfect excuse to give your partner and yourself a sexy gift. After all, the beauty of offering something sexy is that both of you benefit! So here we list 5 sexy gifts guaranteed to spice up the Christmas spirit.
Any holiday period is a good occasion to improve your sex life. Christmas is no exception. It is the perfect excuse to give your partner and yourself a sexy gift. After all, the beauty of offering something sexy is that both of you benefit! So here we list 5 sexy gifts guaranteed to spice up the Christmas spirit.
5 ideas for sexy gifts to please you and your partner
Nipple rings
I find nipple rings incredibly provocative. I’m talking non-piercing rings here. (Although if you’re into body piercing, I guess you can go all the way). I will never forget the day Aliki put on her first set as a surprise.
But the advantage of wearing a nipple ring is not only decorative. The ring -assuming that it is a loop- tightens your nipples, making them more sensitive to the touch. And a harder nipple is also more enjoyable for your partner to play with. Dangling nipple rings make particularly sexy gifts. It is particularly arousing to feel the cool touch of metal against your mouth as your partner hangs her breasts above you. But just so we’re clear: nipple rings are not only for women.
Cock rings
Just like nipple rings are not just for women, cock rings are not just for men. Yes, you read it right. Cock rings are for women too. Aliki loves the feel of the ring rubbing against her clit when I wear one. It also gives the penis more firmness. And this does not imply that your cock is flaccid in the first place. Even if you have a well-functioning apparatus, a ring at the base of the penis will it make a bit tighter.
‘Cock ring’ is often a generic term that includes also ball rings. Many opt for a ring that encircles the penis and entire scrotum. This gives men a particular feel, according to Jelle, owner and founder of Velv’or. Wearing this kind of ring throughout the day not only gives you the sensation of manliness but it’s pleasurable and good for one’s health (we have an interview with Jelle coming up soon).
Suction toys
When it comes to sex toys and different types of sexual pleasure women are luckier. That’s the way life made us. And it appears that suction-based sex toys, such as the Womanizer and Lelo Sona, are simply the apex of clit excitement. They top the list of sexy gifts. This is not only the opinion of amateurs. One of our favorite tantric masseuses admitted reaching several climaxes in a row the first time she tried it!
A porn subscription
By this I don’t necessarily mean an online membership to the myriad of hard-core porn sites that clutter the internet. I am referring to artistic and tasteful indie porn that is arousing for both him and her. In fact I guess I am mostly referring to Erika Lust (checkout our review). And don’t, for a moment, imagine that men are more interested in porn than women. Perhaps Aliki should write something more about that! Watching porn is a very exciting way to start off a steamy evening, to put you in the mood and to get new ideas.
Massage oil
Massage oil is probably the bedroom essential. It comes in handy not only during sex, but also for the more quiet nights when you might not feel like going all the way. A sensual massage can be incredibly erotic and satisfying. And more often than not, after a good rub, even if you’re tired, sex gets going!
The most important thing is to find a massage oil that you and your partner both like. The wrong smell and texture can easily be a turn-off. Some of the expert massage therapists we visit suggest oil-based (as opposed to water-based) liquids.
This is a very short list of sexy gifts of course, just meant to whet your appetite and spark your imagination. You know your partner best. The most important thing is to not be afraid to go a small step further in your choice of sexy gifts. Playing safe might not invigorate your sex life the way an adventurous surprise would!
