Sex drive is a force of nature when you are glossy young and healthy. What happens though when your body is suffering? Is horniness just a response to physical stimuli or is it all in the brain?...
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The Lifestyle is not all about meeting at swingers' clubs. At some point, you are likely to consider inviting a couple over for sex at yours. Very early on, Aliki and I discussed how we felt about this. Our initial position was not to mix vanilla with Lifestyle. We were...
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Are we too old to start swinging? Couples often ask this before taking the first step into the Lifestyle. But there's no age for swinging. It's a mindset. ...
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Fantasizing about sex with your partner is a first step towards building a healthy sexual space in your relationship. But where do you draw the line?...
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One of our first ground rules with Xander was to never mix lifestyle with vanilla friends. Our relationship has evolved a lot though and we find ourselves reconsidering. What are your ground rules for sexual exploration?...
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Building a sexual space with your partner is one of the sturdiest foundations for a healthy sexual relationship. It is a space where you can be your true sexual self....
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Wearing a cock ring is more than just sex play. It's a culture. Velv’Or founder and CEO, Jelle Plantenga, speaks to Couple of Secrets about cock rings and men’s health. ...
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