sexual space Archives | Couple of Secrets

10 ways to spice up your sex life!

13.05.2020 , By Aliki, A love story, Spice it up!

Ever find yourself wondering how you can spice up your sex life? Read our 10 ways to help you achieve it in no time. ...

Proposing kinky sex to your partner | Female advice

16.03.2019 , By Aliki, Sex Talk, Spice it up!

Proposing kinky sex to your partner can be challenging, but this doesn’t mean that you have to wave goodbye to your plans of kinky sex with the one you love. All it takes is planning, careful tactics and lots of warming up to it!...

Are you a swinger? | Defining our sexual mindset

19.11.2018 , By Xander, Sex Talk, New to swinging?

On some days we're swingers. But on others we’re strictly vanilla. Our sexual life is much more than sex itself. It's a lifestyle. It's a sexual mindset. How do you define it? ...

The Couple of Secrets Sextival 2018

12.08.2018 , By Aliki, Spice it up!

You know all the things you've been fantasising about for ages but you never get to realise? The fantasies that make your libido hit red, but are just outside your comfort zone? It's exactly these things we want to do during the Sextival! ...

Libertine lifestyle | 6 reasons why we engage in it

15.07.2018 , By Xander, Sex Talk, New to swinging?

Aliki and I never made a conscious decision to adopt a libertine lifestyle. We just clicked together and set out to expand our sexual space together. Indeed, the libertine lifestyle is only a part of that sexual space. But an important part nonetheless. Here are our reasons why we do...

Swinging Jealousy

03.06.2018 , By Xander, Sex Talk, New to swinging?

I have come to the conclusion that the right dose of jealousy is healthy. There are limits of course. I cannot help feeling the prick when I see Aliki at the centre of male attention. Yet, at the right dose, that pain is both sexy and effective. It makes me...

Simultaneous climax | An unexpected pleasure

30.05.2018 , By Xander, A secret sex life, Spice it up!, Our stories

It is always a sign of deep complicity when two lovers experience simultaneous climax. What Aliki and I experienced in a small love-cabin with Frank and Jenny however, was something new altogether. It is an experience that both excited us and at the same time challenged us. ...

The sex party | our first lifestyle house party

29.04.2018 , By Xander, A secret sex life, Our stories

Aliki and I discussed it in detail. Should we accept the invitation for a private sex party? Would it be too much outside our comfort zone? In the end, our curiosity had tipped the balance. ...

The stranger | A sexual roleplay

11.04.2018 , By Xander, A normal couple, Spice it up!

She walked up to me, boldly. A smile played at the edge of her luscious lips. - ‘Waiting for someone?’ I took a sip of my Talisker, calmly. It afforded me a moment to study her. Long black hair, dark penetrating eyes, a tight burgundy turtle-neck hugging the contours of...

Sex chat | Talking to your partner about sex

08.04.2018 , By Xander, Sex Talk

Talking to your partner about sex is the foundation of your sexual space as a couple. From personal experience, however, we both know it doesn't always come easy. He might be reticent, she might be closed up...

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