Can abstinence revamp your sexual life? Absence makes the heart grow fonder. Perhaps what is true for ‘heart’ is even valid for your genitals. Then again, out of sight is out of mind...
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We all crave to be great lovers, to make our sex partners moan with pleasure. But what exactly is a good lover? ...
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You know all the things you've been fantasising about for ages but you never get to realise? The fantasies that make your libido hit red, but are just outside your comfort zone? It's exactly these things we want to do during the Sextival! ...
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My friend, Peter has been mentioning his massage therapist for years. He has often casually referred to how he likes tantric massage and any kind of massage really. But Xander looks a bit intimidated. ...
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At our first Couple of Secrets workshop at the BXLWKP afterwork party, we asked participants to write down their sexual fantasies. This is a selection of the most exciting fantasies we received. Now our message is: go and carry them out! ...
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Mary is installed to Xander’s left and I to his right. With her skilled hands she is massaging his feet, his legs, his thighs, his torso, his face and forehead. -'Tantric massage was such an exciting sensation’, Xander confessed to me later, ‘Feeling hands and legs touching me and not knowing...
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Since last week we started ticking off Xander’s list of sexual fantasies for 2018, I thought it was about time I contributed with mine as well. Just in case these wish-lists do work...
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